Yesterday afternoon in our hotel in Nanchang, we became a family of four. The director and caretaker of Nindu County SWI placed Betsy, whom they call LiLi, into our arms. It was quite obvious that took great care of her and loved her very much and we can't thank them enough for this.
Betsy is a revelation. She initially was very afraid when she first saw us, but calmed down within an amazingly short period of time and today is hanging in pretty well. She is very strong and surprisingly robust, given that she is a heart baby, and definitely opinionated and we were told was a favorite of the staff at her orphanage. She is at the moment a real Mama's girl (and in fact, has been saying Mama almost immediately to me--I think they were showing her the picture we sent so she is a bit familiar with us.) But givent that Joe is the Pied Piper of all children, I don't expect this to last. ;-) She also is very loving and gives hugs and kisses already and absolutely adores her jie-jie (big sister) and Katie is absolutely enthralled with her mei-mei and already is fiercely protective of her and literally sits by Betsy's crib waiting for her to wake up when she is asleep.
Our first night was surprisingly peaceful. As many of you folks know, the first night you spend with your new child is often anything but restful and I was anticipating the worst, especially since Betsy is a bit older and Katie was so easy the first few weeks that I figured that we were due for a rough transition this time. But it was pretty easy and Betsy went down at her usual time very peacefully.
The peaceful night was a good thing because sleep was a bit elusive given that the A/C was out in our hotel room and today was a busy day as we had to go to the provincial offices to finalize the adoption papers. We again got to see the old director and new director at her orphanage and it was quite apparent how close she was to them and how fond they were of her. It was quite heartwarming to see how much they care for here. I again cannot express how grateful we are to them.
As of this morning, it is official: we are now a family of four. Welcome to the family, Miss Elizabeth Xiangli!
(Pictures and video to follow as soon as I get them all uploaded. We have been a bit behind schedule with this since we have been changing rooms and getting settled. Plus, our budding photojournalist of an elder daughter was documenting the moments on our digital camera to amuse herself and I am having to filter through a lot of pictures to find them. But I hope to upload pics today or tomorrow.)

She is lovely! Precious sweet face. I am glad to hear you have had a smooth first day and night. What a blessing!
ReplyDeleteAndrea
She is precious! Glad things are going well. Jennifer, Larry, Lillian and Kendall
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely beautiful! So glad to hear that day #1 went so smoothly. Hopefully, you are sleeping peacefully now. --Mindy
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely breathtaking! Glad your first night went so well............. Your post and photos brought tears to my eyes! Jamie, Paul, Baylee, Marli, Augie, and Wojo, 55 pounds at 17 weeks.........
ReplyDeleteI am so excited for your family!!! Can't wait to meet your new addition!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! Betsy is gorgeous and Katie already looks like a super sister. I'm so glad to hear about the smooth transition. I hope the transition continues to be smooth and you enjoy your first few days as a family of four.
ReplyDelete~Mary, Jason and Maya
Yea!!! She's beautiful and I love the pics of the family of 4! Katie looks so happy! So happy things have gone smoothly! Congrats from all of us and praying things continue to go well! Blessings to all!
ReplyDeleteWow! This is so wonderful, I can't even say. She is beautiful and you can see her personality right in those eyes. I think she was definitely waiting on you, Joe, and Katy. More pictures, please!
ReplyDeleteWhat a happy day for all of you! I am on the brink of tears thinking of your joy & excitement. What a little beauty she is & how fantastic it is that Katie has taken to her so quickly and she has obviously done the same with you all! Can't wait for more pictures and more stories! Hugs all around!
ReplyDeleteLove you guys!
Gerry
Yay, yay, yay!!!! SO happy for you, glad things have been going smoothly so far, and WOW does Betsy look like Katie in the picture w/ Joe (where Katie is sitting behind her). I love the ones where she is snuggling up to you, so, so precious!! Can't wait for the next update!!
ReplyDeleteSo thrilled for you guys! It sounds like it was a splendid first day as a family of four. Keep the posts coming; we are so happy to get to follow you on this amazing journey!
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Lori and Co.
She's soooo cute! Can't wait to meet her in person!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! Hurry home so we can meet her and spoil her rotten like her big sister! ;- )
ReplyDeleteChristmas is going to be so much fun this year!
Love, Leslie
She's one of the bunch!! SOOOOOO Blessed for you!
ReplyDeleteGOD IS SO GOOD!!!! Cant wait to meet her!
God keeps His promises! I am so happy for you! Tears streaming as I write. Happy belated birthday friend! Blessings to the Doss family of four!!!
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Michelle and the Rae clan
What a beautiful family!! I'm so happy for you and can't wait to meet Betsy and have big sister Katie back at school. We miss you. God Bless your new family!
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Missy Dawson
We are so excited for you guys! We can't wait to meet her! We are counting down the days.
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Sandra, Tina, and Cousin Lance
Hi Katie, I miss you and I am happy to see your new sister.
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Tori Rae
Missed you in Kindermusik Katie! Can't wait to see you and Betsy!! Love You, Mrs. Heidi
ReplyDeleteHowdy world travelers! Rinley wanted me to let you know her Aunt is still working on the clothes for everyone. Did Rinley give you her parent's phone number so your guide can make contact? 158 202 40241 is her mother's number 136 000 98620 is her father's number. Call mom first. Let me know if you get this post.
ReplyDeletelove from Mikel and the rest of the Salsgivers!
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She is precious!
ReplyDeleteAH, love her cheeks!
Mei-Ling